Whether you are a fan of sex toys or not chances are that you will have some sort of encounter with these prosthetic devices. 74% of lesbians polled, use them on some sort of regular basis. While the large majority uses them as an enhancement to their sex lives with their partners, some use them strictly for solo action.

There are so many sex toys on the market. With so many choices, you may find yourself with a great deal of questions. What are the differences between a dildo, a vibrator or a G-Spot vibe? What fits best in a harness? They come in all shapes, sizes and colors. Made from different materials, some are durable and others are softer. They have a variety of features and styles. Which one is best for you? Better yet, which one is best for your partner?

It all boils down to, what you like. Do you enjoy clitoral stimulation, penetration or perhaps both? How do you get off? What are your fantasies? Do you long for the connection that you feel with your partner while being penetrated at the same time?
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Smoothies : These are rocket shaped glide rides. While Smoothies have the elongated narrow shape similar to a penis, they are smooth and pointed at the tip. So if you are one that doesn't wish to have a penis in the room, whether it's made of plastics and rubber, yet enjoy penetration, these may be ideal for you.

Usually you can adjust the vibrating speed on these slick toys. They come in a variety of sizes. They are made of plastic, often light up and come in all colors, including leopard skin and camouflage. They are easy to clean because they are not porous.

The Classic's: Most Classic vibrators are shaped like a penis. Like all vibrators, they are battery operated. They can come in 4" to 8" long with width of 1-¼" to 2". Their speed, like a smoothie is adjustable. The Classics present many great qualities. They are made of materials from cyber skin (which look and feel like skin) to rubber so they are softer to the touch than Smoothies are. Designed for both external and internal stimulation they give you more variety. Some reviewers especially like them because they usually look like a penis. Even though they do come in pinks, purples and blues, they often have the ribs, veins and head of a real penis.

In addition, more good news on the Classics, if they come with a flared bottom you can fit them in most harnesses! Now that's nice!

With the joys of a softer, more porous material however, there is a downfall that Classics and Dual Actions require…more care and clean up. Their rigidity does not last near as long as a Smoothie does.

The Rabbit Pearltakes first place The Rabbit Pearl actually has vibrating pearls in the mid section of the shaft, which make for a unique sensation. These wonderful toys are easily a top choice in reviewer ratings! Like Classics, washing and cleaning properly is a must.

Maggie, 24, Nursing Assistant in Seattle, says, "When my friend bought me a Rabbit for my birthday, I thought it looked a little strange, but thought I would give it a try, once I used it, I was in heaven. I no longer have to use both hands!"

Again, with the joys of being made of softer, more porous materials however, there is a downfall that Classics and Dual Actions require more care and clean up. Their rigidity does not last near as long as a Smoothie does.

G-Spot Vibes: Many women have amazing orgasms when their G-Spots are directly stimulated. For some, this direct stimulation can result in female ejaculation of fluids produced by the glands surrounding the urethra. The G-Spot is the spongy tissue located on the front wall of the vagina behind the urethra, which is why, the G-Spot vibe work magic for many women. They are shaped like an "L' so that they provide that direct stimulation to the G-Spot, when pointed upwards toward the urethra. They come in both the harder plastic as well as the softer jelly materials. If you choose one with a ridge at the base, it will give extra clitoral stimulation as well.

The most common complaint with the G-Spot Vibe is that they are not easy to insert and once inserted are not as easy to maneuver.

Most Dildos shaped like a penis are made of the softer materials such as acrylics, jelly rubber and cyber skin. They became popular in the lesbian community because it fits nicely with a harness. Like vibrators, they come in varieties of colors, lengths and widths so you can choose what is perfect for you or your partner, but keep in mind… these are not vibrators. If you do not enjoy the stimulation from vibrations and prefer a more natural ride, dildos are what you are looking for. Although a few come in a smooth design and or have a corkscrew affect, so if penises are not what you are looking for there are other choices. Some have flat bases to fit easily in the ring of your harness and some have bases shaped like testicles, these ones have a harder time spinning into place. Some are so realistic in the way they look and feel that upon first glance and first entry, they seem to be the real deal.

There are dildos on the market that ejaculate and come complete with a recipe! It is called, the ejaculating cock. It is so new it has not been reviewed yet.

Reviewer advice is that if you are not sure what size to get, lean toward the smaller of your choice. You can always use them, and work your way up to the bigger size, but to start out too large can be a pain, literally.

Like vibrators, they require thorough cleaning and if used vigorously do not have a long rigidity life. Silicon materials are a better choice. They have some softness yet are hard enough for the job. They have a longer rigidity life.

What a wonderful concept. To hands-free penetrate your lover while being penetrated yourself. What a ride!

Unfortunately, there are varieties of double dildos on the market, but very few actually work, with one exception, the Nexus. The old style double dongs are hard to keep in place, are slippery and not easily maneuverable. Do not waste your money!

Finally, Vixen Products has actually designed a double dildo that actually works, the Nexus. It is designed to wear in a harness. The wearer has a curved end that fits perfectly inside her while the other end stands upright for great friction and penetration. It actually stays in place! The Nexus is a newer version of the double dildo and it has made an impressive impact in the lesbian sex toy market. It has quickly jumped to reviewer favorites!

The Nexus is made of silicon so it is easier to wash than a rubber type dildo. It also has a longer rigidity life.

You would think this one would be easy, but it is not. Pick the wrong harness and your view of strap-on sex can go down the drain. So, if you have had a bad experience, buy another harness and try it.

Some of the most common complaints I have heard regarding strap-on sex is that the harness does not stay in place, becomes lose, and doesn't stay firmly against the wearer.  Vixen products also have good quality harnesses.

There are panty styles and boxer styles, the most common strap styles. There is also a chinstrap harnesses. They come in small, medium and large…

The most popular is the Terra Firma. Popular because it is made of a soft leather material and is said to be the best at holding your dildo firmly against your body.

The draw back is that it cannot be used with the Nexus and has no opening for dual action. If you are looking for a dual action harness, make sure there are openings for double-sided dildos and that the straps make for a tight fit.

OK, so you like back door action. Some reviewers report that the anus has an abundance of nerve endings and sensations that are incredibly arousing.

All sorts of plugs, probes and screws are used…. Even the G-Spot vibe is used for anal play, as they enhance stimulation to the prostate gland. From the big flirt and little flirt, they normally come in 3" to 6" long but can even come as long as an arm.

By far, the most popular anal toys are beads and they come in small, medium and large sizes.

Make sure that you always have plenty of lube for anal play.

Lube was one of the best sex enhancers ever invented! We all have had times when we need more lubrication. That's OK. That's why we have lube. Most lubes are water based. If you have reoccurring problems with yeast infections, you may want to go with a glycerin free lube. Go with a lighter gel if you like your lube less thick.

What is most important in your search for the best toy is to be comfortable with yourself, relax and have fun. That is what it's about. Sex toys may enhance your love making with your partner but it is you that is making love to her, the toy is only your instrument.

While nothing can replace your tongue, fingers and wet kisses, using toys can add variety and unpredictability to your sex life. So have fun.